Sunday, February 14, 2010

A 21st-Century Valentine's Day Card

Approximately four years ago, in February 2006, I posted the lyrics to the song "Ready for Love" by India.arie on my blog. No commentary, no explanation, just the lyrics. It was a prayer of sorts to the love gods or to God, whomever was listening that day, requesting someone with whom to share my life. The thought of growing old alone had become so unbearable to me (as I lamented here) that I was finally ready to set aside my fears -- fear of getting hurt, of rejection, of the unknown.

The gods must have taken my post seriously because by the end of the month, I had stumbled across the blog of the man who would eventually become my fiance and I fell head over heels in love. The relationship had a rocky start (you can read about it here, here, and here) but it prevailed and developed into one of the best things that's ever happened to me.

I guess I really was ready for love.





HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY, BABY!
You were so worth the wait.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Happy Valentine's Day!

Me said...

Nice.

Coffeypot said...

I'm happy for you and your sweetie, but I have found that love hurts and is not worth it.

Mother of Invention said...

Hope you have many more Valentine's days ahead! Hope you also get to live with each other or at least live closer to each other soon! (I might have missed that change!) I, too am on Facebook a lot too which I figure sort of replaced the blogging I used to do.

Dre said...

Congrats. I've found that love hurts too...unless it's real. Real love may be difficult but it's totally painless if it's real. Looks like you know that already.

m/p said...

oh, honey, i am so happy for you, and i love that you have a wonderful man.

hes as lucky as you are!

heres to never needing another valentine for the rest of your life.